When my MIL handed me a “special gift” at my daughter’s first birthday, I braced myself. I’d endured months of subtle digs since using a surrogate, but nothing prepared me for what was inside that gift bag.
When I first met Linda, she took my hands in hers and smiled at me warmly. Her eyes swept over my face like she was memorizing me, and I’d felt chosen. Special, even.
“You’re perfect for him,” she’d said, squeezing my fingers. “Just perfect.”
Linda welcomed me into the family when Jake and I got married. We didn’t have enough common interests to be friends, but we laughed together over coffee and even shared an inside joke about the disastrous green bean casserole Jake’s cousin brought to Thanksgiving.
We had a good relationship, which made it that much harder to process when Linda turned on me.
After a year of trying for a baby, Jake and I visited a fertility specialist. Months of testing followed, culminating in a diagnosis that shattered my world: “Early ovarian failure.”
I couldn’t just not carry a child to term — my eggs weren’t viable at all.
Jake and I were devastated. We grieved for the children we’d never have, but then, one conversation changed everything.
“You could still adopt,” our long-time friend Cheryl suggested one day. “Or look into surrogacy.”
“Surrogacy could work,” I said, looking at Jake. “But I wouldn’t even know where to start…”
“I’d do it for you,” Cheryl replied.
That casual conversation turned into planning. We had meetings with our fertility doctor and visited a lawyer to discuss contracts. Things were looking up… until we discussed it with Linda.
“Surrogacy and an egg donor. Oh, dear. That’s… mature of you, Mandy,” she said, as if I’d just confessed to giving Jake permission to cheat. “Won’t you feel left out, knowing you had to rely on another woman to give you a child?”
“No, of course not,” I’d stammered. “Besides, we’ve found the perfect surrogate: Cheryl has agreed to help us.”
Linda’s eyes widened. She turned to Cheryl and beamed.
“What a beautiful connection for my son,” she said, reaching out to touch Cheryl’s hand. “To still have that biological anchor. Every child needs one.”
Cheryl shifted uncomfortably in her seat. “I’m just contributing the eggs and baking the kid in my oven, Linda. That’s it.”
“Oh, of course,” Linda said, but her eyes never left Cheryl’s face. “But there’s something so special about the woman who carries the baby. That bond is irreplaceable.”
The gender reveal party was supposed to be our celebration. I’d spent weeks planning it, but the moment Linda arrived, I felt the atmosphere shift. She moved through our guests like she was hosting the party herself, whispering, touching arms.
I caught fragments of her voice drifting across the yard: “Such a blessing that someone so nurturing could step in… The baby will have such a strong maternal figure… Sometimes these things work out exactly as they’re meant to…”
Then she clinked her glass for a toast. “To Cheryl,” she announced, “the woman who made my son a father, the mother of my grandchild. You made us a family.”
Awkward glances underscored the polite applause. I signaled to Jake, and we gathered everyone for the cake cutting. But Linda cut in: “Wait! We need the mother. Cheryl?”
She steered Cheryl to Jake’s side. Cheryl flushed red and whispered, “I’m so sorry. This isn’t okay.”
But Linda was already directing people to take photos. “Stand closer together. That’s perfect. What a beautiful family portrait.”
I stood there holding that knife, wondering if anyone else could see how small I’d become.
The baby was born in spring, a beautiful girl. I cried when I held her — those ugly, gulping sobs. But Linda was already orchestrating the narrative.
She arrived at the hospital with a professional photographer she’d hired without telling us. She directed shots of Cheryl holding the baby, of my husband gazing down at his daughter, of three generations bonding.
“We need to capture this moment,” she kept saying. “This beautiful beginning.”
I was in some of those photos, but always on the periphery.
Within a week, she posted a carousel of photos on social media of Cheryl holding baby Christina while my husband stood beside her.
The caption read: “So proud of my son and Cheryl. What a loving pair of parents for my precious granddaughter to look up to! #BlessedGrandmother #NewFamily #PerfectMatch”
When I brought it up, she blinked innocently. “I wanted to focus on the people who created this miracle. You understand.”
Then Cheryl and I met for coffee.
“Linda’s been calling me,” Cheryl said. “She wants to take me shopping for the baby. She keeps texting me about how Jake and I have great chemistry parenting together.”
My chest tightened. “What?”
“I told her you’re the mother. I don’t parent Christina at all. She laughed, Mandy.”
I finally said it out loud: “She doesn’t see me as Christina’s mom.”
“It’s creeping me out! It’s like she’s writing me into a story that doesn’t exist.”
“I’ll ask Jake to speak to her,” I said.
Christina’s first birthday party proved just how right I was.
I’d stayed up late, curling ribbons and packing favors. Everything was going great until Linda arrived, blowing air kisses and hugging Cheryl before handing me a gift bag.
“Something extra special from Grandma. Open it now. Everyone should see.”
I pulled out a heavy picture frame. Guests leaned in, then slowly backed away.
It was a custom illustration of Cheryl holding Christina while Jake stood beside her. On the front porch of our house. I was nowhere.
“What is this, Mom?” Jake muttered. “Where’s Mandy?”
“I just wanted to capture the bond between the people who made her,” she said. “The biological connection is so important.”
Then, smiling sweetly at me: “Of course, you’re part of her life too, Mandy, in your own special way. Like the babysitter.”
I returned the frame to the bag and shoved it into Jake’s hands. Then I faced Linda.
“You need to leave. Now.”
“You’re blowing this out of proportion. It’s just a picture.”
“It’s another one of your deliberate attempts to erase me.”
She raised an eyebrow. “Let’s be realistic about who actually created this family.”
“You can leave quietly, or I’ll ask someone to walk you out.”
Jake stepped up. “Take this with you. We don’t want it.”
She stormed out.
Texts poured in from relatives. I was ruining the party. I embarrassed her.
But Jake took my hand. “I should’ve stopped this months ago. You didn’t ruin anything. You protected our family.”