A Reddit user recently shared her heartbreaking story about discovering her husband had been unfaithful, and not just with anyone, but with her childhood best friend. The revelation came at a time when she was six months pregnant, adding to the emotional turmoil she was already facing.
She had been with her husband since she was 19, and the two had built a life together over the course of six years of marriage, with two children and a third on the way. Around the same time, she learned that her father, her last living parent, had been diagnosed with colon cancer. She held on to hope that he would overcome it, but eventually, doctors confirmed the treatment wasn’t working, leaving him with only a few months to live.
Despite the grief over her father’s illness, her husband was a pillar of support. She described how he had been her rock, always present and attentive, not only to her but also to their children. She continued to balance her responsibilities as a wife and mother, making sure her children received the attention they needed, even as she navigated her personal struggles.
Her best friend also played a significant role during this challenging period. They had known each other since childhood, and their families were closely intertwined. Her best friend was a source of comfort as she dealt with her father’s illness. However, things took an unexpected and painful turn.
One morning, the Reddit user was up early caring for her sick child when her husband’s phone alarm went off. As she went to turn it off, she noticed a text from her best friend that changed everything:
“I’m assuming since there hasn’t been an angry pregnant lady on my doorstep, you haven’t told her about us yet?”
Shocked and disbelieving, she scrolled through the messages, confirming that her husband had been having an affair with her best friend for the past four months. At first, she didn’t know how to respond. For a few days, she continued to act as if nothing had happened, maintaining the facade of a supportive wife and mother while processing the betrayal. She also decided to cut off her best friend entirely, resolving never to speak to her again.
The story quickly gained attention on Reddit, with many commenters offering support and praising her for staying strong. One commenter advised her not to try working things out with her husband, emphasizing that his actions were a serious breach of trust.
Eventually, she shared the devastating news with her mother-in-law and her ex-best friend’s family, simply by handing them screenshots of the incriminating texts. Both families were horrified by what they saw and immediately took her side. Her mother-in-law was so enraged that she declared she no longer considered her son family, offering unconditional support to her daughter-in-law.
While the thought of leaving her husband had been difficult, she began working with a lawyer to start divorce proceedings. She ensured that her children’s future was secured, especially making sure that her husband would not receive her father’s inheritance.
In a later update, she shared more details about confronting her husband. She also revealed that her in-laws, along with her ex-best friend’s family, had staged a “slide show” of the texts between her husband and the former friend. Her husband’s reaction was explosive—he attempted to attack his mistress before breaking down. When he returned home to find that his wife had moved out with the children, he flew into a rage and even tried to break into her father’s house with a baseball bat, resulting in his arrest.
Despite the chaos, the Reddit user refused to reconcile, drawing strength from the example of her late parents, who had a faithful and loving marriage. She also received unexpected support from Jake, her ex-best friend’s brother, who had harbored feelings for her since they were teenagers. Though they weren’t rushing into anything, he was a source of comfort during this difficult time.
Tragically, her father passed away a week after her previous update. She and her husband dissolved their marriage, and she gave birth to a baby named after her father. Her ex-husband was given supervised visitation rights and was required to attend therapy and anger management. Meanwhile, Jake remained by her side, offering patience and understanding as they navigated this new chapter in life together.