A week before Christmas, my brother Ryan and his wife, Lindsey, arrived unannounced at my doorstep. Their heating system had broken down, leaving their house freezing and uninhabitable. Despite the disruption to our plans, my husband Nathan and I welcomed them in, unaware of the chaos that would soon unfold.
At first, things were fine. Ryan was his usual easygoing self, but Lindsey’s quirks began to surface quickly. She monopolized our master bathroom, leaving a mess of damp towels and toiletries in her wake, despite having access to the guest bathroom. To make matters worse, I noticed some of my clothes mysteriously migrating into her suitcase—without her bothering to ask!
I tried to stay calm and avoid confrontation, but everything came to a head on Christmas Eve morning.
As we gathered for breakfast, I noticed something odd: the mantel, which I had lovingly decorated with garlands and stockings, seemed emptier than before. My heart dropped when I realized what was missing—the black marble vase holding my mother’s ashes.
This was our first Christmas without Mom, who had passed away earlier in the year. Before her death, she made Ryan and me promise to keep her ashes with us during the holidays, so she could “be there one last time.” We had planned to scatter her ashes together at her favorite spot after Christmas, but now, she was gone.
“Has anyone seen Mom?” I asked, my voice trembling.
Lindsey barely glanced up from her plate. “Oh, that vase? I threw it out in the backyard. It freaked me out every time I saw it.”
The room fell silent. Her words echoed in my mind, disbelief turning to rage.
“You did WHAT?” I yelled, leaping from my chair.
“I threw it out,” she repeated, rolling her eyes. “It’s just ashes. Stop being so dramatic.”
Tears stung my eyes as I shouted back, “She was our mother! You had no right to touch her ashes!” My voice cracked, and Nathan had to hold me back as I lunged toward her. Lindsey shrugged, muttering, “It’s not like she’ll know.”
I stormed out to the backyard, desperately hoping to recover what I could. After an hour of combing through the grass and trash bins, I salvaged only a few remnants. My mother’s ashes, her memory, were mostly gone.
That night, I lay awake, seething with anger. I wanted to kick Lindsey out, but Ryan’s pleading look at dinner stopped me. “Please, just wait until after Christmas,” he begged. Reluctantly, I agreed.
Around midnight, a piercing scream jolted Nathan and me awake. We bolted upstairs to find Lindsey standing on the bed, shrieking hysterically. The smell hit us before we reached the room—a gut-wrenching stench coming from the en-suite bathroom. The toilet had backed up, flooding the carpet and soaking Lindsey’s clothes, as well as some of mine she had borrowed without permission.
Nathan struggled to keep a straight face as he assessed the damage. “Wow, looks like a plumbing issue.”
“Why only this room?” I added, barely suppressing a smirk.
“Christmas miracle?” Nathan quipped.
Lindsey was livid, screaming for us to fix it. “Your house, your problem!” she yelled.
Nathan calmly replied, “We’ll call a plumber in the morning. For now, you should move to the guest room.” Lindsey shot daggers at us but had no choice.
The next morning, Ryan sheepishly admitted that Lindsey had caused the mess when she flushed something she shouldn’t have. “She was trying to clean up after herself, but it backfired,” he explained. Nathan and I couldn’t help but laugh at the irony.
On Christmas Day, Lindsey’s bad luck continued. The plumber couldn’t come until the day after, leaving the house with a faint but persistent odor. During dinner, Lindsey tried to win sympathy by recounting her ordeal, but the rest of the family was appalled when they learned what she had done to Mom’s ashes.
“How could you?” my aunt exclaimed, glaring at Lindsey. “That’s beyond disrespectful!”
By the end of the evening, Lindsey was humiliated and unusually quiet. Ryan pulled me aside to apologize. “I didn’t know she was going to do that,” he said. “I’m so sorry.”
I nodded, my anger softening slightly. “She got what she deserved,” I replied. “Let’s just get through today.”
Later that night, Nathan wrapped his arms around me as we cleaned up. “Do you think your mom had a hand in all this?” he asked with a grin.
I laughed, feeling a sense of closure. “If she did, I’d say she nailed it.”
Though it wasn’t the Christmas I had planned, I couldn’t help but feel that Mom’s presence was with us after all, ensuring Lindsey learned a valuable lesson about respect and consequences.